Right after I graduated from high school, a friend and I threw our clothes and record albums (remember them?) in my $200 Vega and headed across the country to California where my plan was to work for a year and then attend UC-Berkeley on my way to becoming a doctor. One of the jobs I got in California was waitressing. At the time, I thought I was only trying to pay the rent, while preparing for my “real” career. Looking back, it surprises me to realize that some of the most valuable skills contributing to my success came from those waitressing days: communication, interpersonal relations, soft-selling, and making the other person always feel like a winner.
I never did become a doctor – instead, as a Chemical Engineer, I went to work in a vegetable oil refinery, where I was the first female in management and I had 55 blue collar men reporting to me (grudgingly, as I heard later). I was too young and naïve to know how likely I was to fail. Thank goodness, because what I did learn was that if you treat people with respect and really listen to them, you can build success together.
After 20 years with that company – a journey that included my taking a demotion so I could learn different parts of the business, all while starting a family and earning my MBA – I joined Sodexo.
Thinking back, in the early part of my career, I would sometimes be, unintentionally, excluded from conversations about “guy” things. I used to keep up a rudimentary knowledge of the sports of the day so I could participate in the conversation. I really have no time or interest to do that now, but I did take up golf – a game traditionally the provenance of male executives, but a game that I’ve grown to love. This has helped me enjoy some of the benefits of informal interaction that women have often missed.
Sometimes being female can even work to my advantage. Because there are so few women in the supply chain world, a woman can be more visible which, in today’s environment, creates more opportunities. Another advantage? There are shorter lines for the restrooms at executive meetings!
As I moved from waitress to senior vice president of supply management for Sodexo, it may sound like my progress came via a series of erratic and random hops. But the truth is, I chose every job with my eyes wide open understanding the challenges, benefits and tradeoffs associated with each position I embraced. And most importantly, each job was chosen through a filter ensuring it meshed with my core values.
I would encourage all young women to spend time determining your values at the onset of your career. Make conscious choices about your career ensuring they align with your core values. And, whether you choose to be a waitress, a doctor or something entirely different, success will come if you remain true to yourself and your beliefs.